Wednesday, 26 September 2012

Amazing quotes by chanakya


Amazing Quotes By Chanakya

"A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and honest people are screwed first."

"Even if a snake is not poisonous, it should pretend to be venomous."

"The biggest guru-mantra is: Never share your secrets with anybody. It will destroy you."

"There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no friendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth."

"! Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions - Why am I doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead."

"As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it."

"The world's biggest power is the youth and beauty of a woman."

"Once you start a working on something, don't be afraid of failure and don't abandon it. People who work sincerely are the happiest."

"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction."

"A man is great by deeds, not by birth."

"Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status. Such friendships will never give you any happiness."

"Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years. For the next five years, scold them.! By the time they turn sixteen, treat them like a friend. Your grown up children are your best friends."

"Books are as useful to a stupid person as a mirror is useful to a blind person."

"Education is the best friend. An educated person is respected everywhere. Education beats the beauty and the youth."

-> Chankaya was a Indian politician, strategist and writer who lived between 350 BC-275 BC. He is considered to be the first politician in the world.

Tuesday, 25 September 2012

ways to improve managerial skills


8 WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR MANAGERIAL SKILLS

            Each year, thousands of people make the switch from staff engineer or scientist to manager.
            And, although many of us look forward to the change, we find it frustrating once we get there.
            When we were engineers, we were rewarded for our technical skills and labors in direct proportion to what we accomplished.
            But now, as a manager, our success is measured not by our own output hut by the output and productivity of the people we supervise. And that sense of not being in direct control can be a frustrating feeling.
            Fortunately, working with others and getting them to give you their best can be just as rewarding as technical accomplishments . . . once you get the hang of it. Here are eight tips that will help you to manage and to guide your people more effectively.

The Human Touch
            The most valuable qualities you can develop within yourself are patience, kindness, and consideration for other people. Although machines and chemicals don't care whether you scream and curse at them, people do.
            Your subordinates are not just engineers, scientists, administrators, clerks, and programmers they're people, first and foremost. People with families and friends, likes and dislikes. People with feelings. Respect them as people and you'll get their respect and loyalty in return. But treat them coldly and impersonally and they will lose motivation to perform for you.
            Corny as it sounds, the Golden Rule "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you'' ‑is a sound, proven management principle. The next time you're about to discipline a worker or voice your displeasure, ask yourself, "Would I like to be spoken to the way I'm thinking of speaking to him or her?'' Give your people the same kindness and consideration that you would want to receive if you were in their place.

Don’t Be Overly Critical
            As a manager, it's part of your job to keep your people on the right track. And that involves pointing out errors and telling them where they've gone wrong.
            But some managers are overly critical. They're not happy unless they are criticizing. They rarely accomplish much or take on anything new themselves, but they are only too happy to tell others where they went wrong, why they're doing it incorrectly, and why they could do the job better.
            Don't be this type of person. Chances are, you have more knowledge and experience in your field than a good many of the people you supervise. But that's why the company made you the boss! Your job is to guide and teach these people not to yell or nit-pick or show them how dumb they are compared to you.
            Mary Kay Ash, founder and director of Mary Kay Cosmetics, says that successful managers encourage their people instead of criticizing them. " Forget their mistakes," she advises, "and zero in on one small thing they do right. Praise them and they'll do more things right and discover talents and abilities they never realized they had."


Let Them Fail
            Of course, to follow through on Mary Kay's advice, you've got to let your people make some mistakes.
            Does this shock you? I'm not surprised. Most workers expect to be punished for every mistake. Most managers think it's a "black eye" on their record when an employee goofs.
            But successful managers know that the best way for their people to learn and grow is through experience and that means taking chances and making errors.
            Give your people the chance to try new skills or tasks without a supervisor looking over their shoulders but only on smaller, less crucial projects. That way, mistakes won't hurt the company and can quickly and easily be corrected. On major projects, where performance is critical, you'll want to give as much supervision as is needed to ensure successful completion of the task.

Be Available
            Have you ever been enthusiastic about a project, only to find yourself stuck, unable to continue, while you waited for someone higher up to check your work before giving the go ahead for the next phase?
            Few things dampen employee motivation more than management inattention. As a manager, you have a million things to worry about besides the report sitting in your mailbox, waiting for your approval. But to the person who wrote that report, each day's delay causes frustration, anger, worry, and insecurity.
            So, although you've got a lot to do, give your first attention to approving, reviewing, and okaying projects in progress. If employees stop by to ask a question or discuss a project, invite them to sit down for a few minutes. If you're pressed for time, set up an appointment for later that day, and keep it. This will let your people know you are genuinely interested in them. And that's something they'll really appreciate.

Improve the Workplace
            People are most productive when they have the right tools and work in pleasant, comfortable surroundings. According to a study by the Buffalo Organization, a comfortable office environment creates an extra $1600 of productivity annually for professionals and managers.
            Having the right equipment is equally important. One of my clients recently hired a full-time technical writer at a salary of $25,000, but was reluctant to invest $2500 in a word processor for him to use.
            I explained that, in my experience, a word processor can easily double the productivity of a writer. Therefore, if the writer was expected to produce $25,000 worth of work with a typewriter, he could produce $50,000 with a word processor an extra $25,000 a year in productivity for a $2500 investment! The client bought the computer. Both the company and the writer were delighted with the results.
            Be aware that you may not be the best judge of what your employees need to do their jobs effectively. Even if you've done the job yourself, someone else may work best with a different set of tools, or in a different setup because each person is different.
            If your people complain about work conditions, listen. These complaints are usually not made for selfgain, but stem from each worker's desire to do the best job possible. And by providing the right equipment or work space, you can achieve enormous increases in output . . . open with a minimal investment.

A Personal Interest in People
            When is the last time you asked your secretary how her son was doing in Little League or how she enjoyed her vacation?
            Good salespeople know that relating to the customer on a person-to-person level is the fastest way to win friends and sales. Yet many technical managers remain aloof and avoid conversation that does not relate directly to business. Why? Perhaps it's because engineers are more comfortable with equations and inanimate objects than with people, and feel uncomfortable in social situations.
            But just as a salesperson wants to get to know his customer, you can benefit by showing a little personal interest in your people their problems, family life, health, and hobbies. This doesn't have to be insincere or overdone just the type of routine conversation that should naturally pass between people who work closely.
            If you've been ignoring your employees, get into the habit of taking a few minutes every week (or every day) to say "hello" and chat for a minute or two If an employee has a personal problem affecting his mood or performance, try to find out what it is and how you might help. Send a card or small gift on important occasions and holidays, such as a 10th anniversary with the firm or a birthday. Often, it is the little things we do for people (such as letting workers with long commutes leave early on a snowy day, or springing for dinner when overtime is required) that determine their loyally to you.

Be Open to Ideas
            You may think the sign of a good manager is to have a department where everybody is busy at work on their assigned tasks. But if your people are merely "doing their jobs," they're only working at about half their potential. A truly productive department is one in which every employee is actively thinking of better, more efficient methods of working ways in which to produce a higher quality product. in less time, at lower cost.
            To get this kind of innovation from your people, you have to be receptive to new ideas; what's more, you have to encourage your people to produce new ideas. Incentives are one way you can offer a cash bonus, time off, a gift. But a more po­tent form of motivation is simply the employee's knowing that management does listen and does put employee suggestions and ideas to work. Quality Circles, used by Westinghouse and other major firms, are one way of putting this into action... The old standby, the suggestion box. is another time tested method.
            And when you listen to new ideas, be open minded. Don't shoot down a suggestion before you've heard it in full. Many of us are too quick, too eager, to show off our own experience and knowledge and say that something won't work because “we've tried it before” or “we don't do it that way.”  Well, maybe you did try it before, but that doesn't mean it won't work now. And having done things a certain way in the past doesn't mean you've necessarily been doing them the best way. A good manager is open-minded and receptive to new ideas.

Give Your People a Place to Go
If a worker doesn't have a place to go a position to aspire to, a promotion to work toward then his job is a dead end. And dead-end workers are usually bored, unhappy, and unproductive. Organize your department so that everyone has opportunity for advancement, so that there is a logical progression up the ladder in terms of title, responsibility, status, and pay. If this isn't possible because your department is too small, perhaps that progression must inevitably lead to jobs outside the department. If so, don't hold people back; instead, encourage them to aim for these goals so that they will put forth their best efforts during all the years they are with you.

About the Author
            Robert W. Bly, an independent copywriter and consultant specializing in industrial and high-tech advertising, can be reached at 174 Holland Ave., New Milford. NJ 07646. (201) 599-2277

Friday, 21 September 2012

Business Masters Quotes


Top 7 Business Success Quotes by Business Masters

One of the best ways to find inspiration in business is to take advice from people that have made it. I've found that successful business people are usually always willing to share their experiences, you just have to ask.
  1. Goals are the first step to business success. Jim Rohn believes that "If you go to work on your goals, your goals will go to work on you. If you go to work on your plan, your plan will go to work on you. Whatever good things we build end up building us."
  2. Action should follow your goals. "Don't be too timid and squeamish about your actions. All life is an experiment." says Ralph Waldo Emerson.
  3. Persistence is also important after your initial burst of action. "You have to put in many, many, many tiny efforts that nobody sees or appreciates before you achieve anything worthwhile." Brian Tracy
  4. Good questions will keep you on the right track say Anthony Robbins.. "Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers."
  5. Change with your business or be left behind. "It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change." Charles Darwin
  6. Luck and timing will ensure success, so be prepared for luck. "I feel that luck is preparation meeting opportunity." Oprah Winfrey
  7. Success comes when everyone profits. "I have found no greater satisfaction than achieving success through honest dealing and strict adherence to the view that, for you to gain, those you deal with should gain as well." Alan Greenspan.

Thursday, 20 September 2012

success quotes


43 Success Quotes From Under 30 CEO Readers

1. “Opportunities don’t happen, you create them.” via Chris Grosser
2. “Don’t complain; just work harder.” via Chris Grosser
3. “Deeds not Words” via Bernord Hor
4. “Before you can work smart you must work hard.” via Chris Pardo
5. “Persevere…because on the road to success there is never a crowd on the extra mile!” via Charity Gibson
6. “I’m not afraid of dying, I’m afraid of not trying.” – Jay Z via Steven Gordon
7. “It’s not the cards you’re dealt it’s how you play the game” via Chris Pardo
8. “If you think you made it, your at the wrong place, never stop” via Chris Pardo
9. “Some people dream of great accomplishments, while others stay awake and do them” via Danielle Luedtke 
10.“The grass is greener where you water it” via Danielle Luedtke
11. “If you are going to fear anything fear success. Think about what you are doing and when you succeed what life you will have” via Brandon Chalmers
12. “God gives every bird his worm but He does not throw it into the nest” via Liam Carey
13. “If it is to be, it’s up to me” via Caleb Anthony Parker
14. “Life doesn’t have to suck…DO something about it!” via Jennie Mustafa-Julock
15. “The elevator to success is out of order. You’ll have to use the stairs…. One step at a time.” via Rande Wilson
16. “The only time success occurs before work is in the dictionary.” via Cameron Cashmore
17. “Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs even though checkered by failure, than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much because they live in the gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat.” – Theodore Roosevelt via Mike Jones
18. “Entrepreneurs average 3.8 failures before final success. What sets the successful ones apart is their amazing persistence.” – Lisa M. Amos via Tanya Hamilton
19. “The present is theirs; the future, for which I really worked, is mine.” via Ashwin Bonde
20. “Anything less than 120 hours a week is part time, if you are okay with average…then work part time” via Chase Slepak
21. “Nothing is as it appears to be” via Trace Cohen
22. “Success is the worst teacher” via Trace Cohen
23. “If you want to manage somebody, manage yourself. Do that well and you’ll be ready to stop managing. And start leading.” via Mark Gonzales
24. “We are all self made but only the successful admit it” via Corey Leja
25. “If you don’t take a chance, you don’t stand a chance.” via Gabriella Mischel
26. “A successful person is one who can lay a solid foundation from the bricks others have thrown at them.” -David Brinkley via Luke Shaw
27. “Luck is where preparation meets opportunity” via Eric Knotts
28. “Things come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle” – Abraham Lincoln via Tina MiModels
29. “If you are willing to do more than you are paid to do, eventually you will be paid to do more than you do” – unknown via Tina MiModels
30. “Fall down seven times, get up eight times” – Japanese proverb via Tina MiModels
31. “Success is a lousy teacher, it seduces smart people into thinking they can’t lose” – Bill Gates via Ryan Seitz
32. “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says I’m possible” via Victor Aguirre
33. “Entrepreneurs don’t waste time/energy worrying about being better than someone else. Focus on being the very best version of YOU.” via Abdulaziz Aljouf
34. “Whoever says ‘Nothing is Impossible’ has obviously never tried stapling Jell-o to a tree” via Charity Gibson
35. “It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.” Charles Darwin via Ann McCartan
36. “Life isnt about learning how to weather the storm. its about learning how to dance in the rain.” via Monica Fish
37. “There are two rules to success: 1) Never tell everything you know.” via Nick Tart
38. “Create your own destiny. If you don’t, someone else will.” via Chris Leber
39. “Success is not so much what we have, as it is what we are.” – Jim Rohn via Nicole Elizabeth Shields
40. “Success is being able to juggle those Glass Balls called Priorities and keeping them shiny & intact while running the Marathon of Life.” via Jouyin Teoh
41. “Learning from success is important but learning from failure is vital to succeeding” via Jason Platnick
42 “True nobility is not about being better than anyone else its about being better than you used to be.” – Dr. Wayne Dyer via Jason Platnick
43. “Whether you think you can or you can’t, you are right.” – Henry Ford via Brett Kunsch

Friday, 14 September 2012

Nice lines


  • Don't compare yourself with any one in this world. If you compare, you are insulting yourself.
  • Life laughs at you when you are unhappy... Life smiles at you when you are happy... Life salutes you when you make others happy...
  • Every successful person has a painful story. Every painful story has a successful ending. Accept the pain and get ready for success.
  • Easy is to judge the mistakes of others. Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes. It is easier to protect your feet with slippers than to cover the earth with carpet.
  • No one can go back and change a bad beginning; But anyone can start now and create a successful ending.
  • If a problem can be solved, no need to worry about it. If a problem cannot be solved what is the use of worrying?
  • If you miss an opportunity don't fill the eyes with tears. It will hide another better opportunity in front of you.
  • "Changing the Face" can change nothing. But "Facing the Change" can change everything. Don't complain about others; Change yourself if you want peace.
  • Mistakes are painful when they happen. But year's later collection of mistakes is called experience, which leads to success.
  • Be bold when you loose and be calm when you win.
  • Heated gold becomes ornament. Beaten copper becomes wires. Depleted stone becomes statue. So the more pain you get in life you become more valuable.

Wednesday, 12 September 2012

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Interesting facts about dreams


1. You Forget 90% of Your Dreams

Within 5 minutes of waking half of your dream is forgotten. Within 10, 90% is gone.

2. Blind People also Dream

People who became blind after birth can see images in their dreams. People who are born blind do not see any images, but have dreams equally vivid involving their other senses of sound, smell, touch and emotion.

3. Everybody Dreams

Every human being dreams (except in cases of extreme psychological disorder). If you think you are not dreaming – you just forget your dreams.

4. In Our Dreams We Only See Faces That We already Know

Our mind is not inventing faces – in our dreams we see real faces of real people that we have seen during our life but may not know or remember. We have all seen hundreds of thousands of faces throughout our lives, so we have an endless supply of characters for our brain to utilize during our dreams.

5. Not Everybody Dreams in Color

A full 12% of sighted people dream exclusively in black and white. The remaining number dream in full color. Studies from 1915 through to the 1950s maintained that the majority of dreams were in black and white, but these results began to change in the 1960s. Today only 4.4% of the dreams of under-25 year-olds are in black and white. Recent research has suggested that those changing results may be linked to the switch from black-and-white film and TV to color media.

6. Dreams are Symbolic

If you dream about some particular subject it is not often that the dream is about that. Dreams speak in a deeply symbolic language. Whatever symbol your dream picks on it is most unlikely to be a symbol for itself.
(bamboo for h.koppdelaney)

7. Emotions

The most common emotion experienced in dreams is anxiety. Negative emotions are more common than positive ones.

8. You can have four to seven dreams in one night.

On average you can dream anywhere from one or two hours every night.

9. Animals Dream Too

Studies have been done on many different animals, and they all show the same brain waves during dreaming sleep as humans. Watch a dog sleeping sometime. The paws move like they are running and they make yipping sounds as if they are chasing something in a dream.

10. Body Paralysis

Rapid eye movement (REM) sleep is a normal stage of sleep characterized by rapid movements of the eyes. REM sleep in adult humans typically occupies 20-25% of total sleep, about 90-120 minutes of a night’s sleep.
During REM sleep the body is paralyzed by a mechanism in the brain in order to prevent the movements which occur in the dream from causing the physical body to move. However, it is possible for this mechanism to be triggered before, during, or after normal sleep while the brain awakens.

11. Dream Incorporation

Our mind interprets the external stimuli that our senses are bombarded with when we are asleep and make them a part of ourdreams. This means that sometimes in our dreams we hear a sound from reality and incorporate it in a way. For example you may be dreaming that you are in a concert while your brother is playing a guitar during your sleep.

12. Men and Women Dream Differently

Men tend to dream more about other men. Around 70% of the characters in a man’s dream are other men. On the other hand, a woman’s dream contains almost an equal number of men and women. Aside from that, men generally have more aggressive emotions in their dreams than the female lot.

13. Precognitive Dreams

Results of several surveys across large population sets indicate that between 18% and 38% of people have experienced at least one precognitive dream and 70% have experienced déjà  vu. The percentage of persons that believe precognitive dreaming is possible is even higher – ranging from 63% to 98%.
*Precognition, also called future sight, refers to perception that involves the acquisition of future information that cannot be deduced from presently available and normally acquired sense-based information.

14. If you are snoring, then you cannot be dreaming.

This fact is repeated all over the Internet, but I’m a bit suspicious whether it’s really true as I haven’t found any scientific evidence to support it.

15.You can experience an o r g asm in your dream

You can not only have s e x as pleasurable as in your real life while dreaming, but also experience an  o r g a s m  as strong as a real one without any wet results. The sensations felt while lucid dreaming (touch, pleasure and etc..) can be as pleasurable and strong (or I believe even stronger) as the sensations experienced in the real world.
(Many many bamboos for all the dreamy images to alicepopkorn)
Well, I hope you had a great time reading these strange facts about our dreams

The success story of twitter


An impressive success story

People usually see the end result then assume that successful people made it overnight.
When people hear about Twitter today most of them think that its founder created it then succeeded overnight but that wasn't the case.
Jack Dorsey, the co-founder of twitter, have been through tough times and have struggled for years before he managed to make his new website popular. Read this article to know what it takes to be a successful person.

The success story of twitter

Dorsey was passionate about computers and the way people communicated with each other since he was very young. Because he was obsessed with programming he got a job at one of the largest dispatching companies at that time.
Dorsey learned the importance of short messages in dispatching services while working at that company. Dorsey then left his job and decided to start a company that dispatches taxis through a website. After the dot come bubble the company failed and Dorsey had to find another job.
Dorsey found a new job at a pod-casting company but he didn't like the job that much. During that time he became more obsessed with short messages and he used to write his status updates on a blog that he created.
Dorsey then thought about creating a website that allows people to post their own status update and so Twitter was born!

3 lessons about success from the founder of twitter

So what are the lessons you should learn from this story?
  • 1) Learning is a step by step process: Each year Dorsey learned a new thing about short messages. He didn't just buy a book about the importance of short messages then became a millionaire but kept adding to his knowledge with each job he worked at until one day he had the full picture of his dream project in mind
  • 2) People who don't fail never succeed: Dorsey understood this fact at an early age and that's why he didn't bother much whenever he failed. Many people give up after their first start up fails or after they waste some time without finding their passion.If you are afraid to fail then you will never succeed.
  • 3) Passion is the fuel: Do you know why some people keep moving even though they aren't succeeding? its because they have passion about what they do. Don't ever make the mistake of starting a business just because someone or some people succeeded at it. If you want real success then you must not force a hobby onto yourself but instead you need to find out the hobby you are passionate about the most.

The common thing between all successful people

If you read one hundred different success stories you will always find that successful people are the ones who kept trying to the end even though they were failing.
In other words, persistence is the ultimate key to success. Don't look at a successful person then assume that he made it overnight but instead try to find out what he have been through before he became successful.

15 AMAZING FACTS OF ANIMALS


15 Amazing Facts Of Animals

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  • Average sleeping hours of Gorillas is 14 hours a day
  • It takes 2 weeks to digest its foodstuff for sloth.
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  • In a group of lions, 90% of hunting activities is done by female lions.
  • A dog’s sense of smell is 1,000 times stronger than human
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15 Amazing Facts Of Animals | interestingfacts.in
  • Polar Bears are capable of jumping as high as 6 feet and can run as fast as 25mph.
  • A mosquito has 47 teeth and it is most attracted to blue color
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  • Some sharks have eyes similar to a cat
  • On average, pigs live for about 15 years
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  • A woodpecker can peck 20 times per second.
  • An albatross can sleep while flying
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  • A cow gives about 2,00,000 glasses of milk in her lifetime
  • The whale shark has over 4,000 teeth but each tooth is only about 3mm long
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  • A newborn kangaroo is about 1 inch in length and Large kangaroos can cover over 30 feet with each jump.
  • A snail can sleep for 3 years.
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  • Shrimp heart is located in its head

John Maxwell quotes on leadership

Character

  1. It's true that charisma can make a person stand out for a moment, but character sets a person apart for a lifetime.
  2. You build trust with others each time you choose integrity over image, truth over convenience, or honor over personal gain.
  3. Character makes trust possible, and trust is the foundation of leadership.
  4. Character creates consistency, and if your people know what they can expect from you, they will continue to look to you for leadership.
  5. Over time, is it easier or harder to sustain your influence within your organization?  With charisma alone, influence becomes increasingly more difficult to sustain. With character, as time passes, influence builds and requires less work to sustain.

Communication

  1. Great communication depends on two simple skills—context, which attunes a leader to the same frequency as his or her audience, and delivery, which allows a leader to phrase messages in a language the audience can understand.
  2. Earn the right to be heard by listening to others. Seek to understand a situation before making judgments about it.
  3. Take the emotional temperature of those listening to you. Facial expressions, voice inflection and posture give clues to a person’s mood and attitude.
  4. Persuasive communication involves enthusiasm, animation, audience participation, authenticity and spontaneity.

Credibility

  1. Credibility is a leader's currency. With it, he or she is solvent; without it, he or she is bankrupt.
  2. Speak the truth. Transparency breeds legitimacy.
  3. Don’t hide bad news. With multiple information channels available, bad news always becomes known. Be candid right from the start.
  4. A highly credible leader under-promises and over-delivers.
  5. Diligent follow-up and follow-through will set you apart from the crowd and communicate excellence.
  6. A trustworthy leader goes the extra mile to remedy strained relationships, even when it doesn’t appear to be required.

Failure

  1. "Failing forward" is the ability to get back up after you've been knocked down, learn from your mistake, and move forward in a better direction.
  2. Don't buy into the notion that mistakes can somehow be avoided. They can't be. 
  3. Failure is not a one-time event; it's how you deal with life along the way. Until you breathe your last breath, you're still in the process, and there is still time to turn things around for the better.
  4. You are the only person who can label what you do a failure. Failure is subjective.
  5. Don't allow the fire of adversity to make you a skeptic. Allow it to purify you.
  6. Generally speaking, there are two kinds of learning: experience, which is gained from your own mistakes, and wisdom, which is learned from the mistakes of others. 
  7. Seek advice, but make sure it's from someone who has successfully handled mistakes or adversities.
  8. When to quit: (1) Quit something you don't do well to start something you do well. (2)  Quit something you're not passionate about to do something that fills you with passion. (3) Quit something that doesn't make a difference to do something that does.
  9. People change when they hurt enough that they have to, learn enough that they want to, or receive enough that they are able to. 

Followership

  1. More than anything else, followers want to believe that their leaders are ethical and honest. 
  2. When your people see that you are not only competent to lead but also have a track record of successes, they will have confidence in following you, even when they don't understand all the details.
  3. As a leader, it's your job to get your people excited about what their work will accomplish; it’s a natural motivator.

Fostering Creativity In Others

  1. People are an organization's only appreciable asset, but creative people are an organization's most needed asset.
  2. Be willing to absorb some risk and failures to allow people freedom to express themselves.
  3. Creative leaders inherently know when rules need to be challenged, and they can see when a more flexible approach should be taken.
  4. Handle the ideas of your people carefully: If an idea is half-developed but has potential, pass it to the people in your organization who are proven process thinkers and implementers.
  5. Sometimes giving your people permission to be creative is not enough; inspire them by modeling creativity.
  6. The word 'reactive' and the word 'creative' are made up of exactly the same letters; the only difference between the two is that you 'c' (see) differently.

Fostering Your Own Creativity

  1. When you are the leader in your field, it takes a greater level of innovation and commitment to stay there.
  2. Make a point to continually search for a better way of doing things, even when things are going well, to ensure that a better alternative has not been overlooked and to keep your creative talents in practice.
  3. Practice mental agility: Before you write off a far-fetched idea, back up and look at the big picture, because it might fit perfectly on another level.
  4. Have fun: When you are truly having fun in your work, creativity flows freely.

Leading Difficult People

  1. Consider who you are working with: Part of the art of leadership is discovering the unique relationship between the needs of the individual and the organization.
  2. People only know that you and the organization intend to meet their needs when you tell them so.
  3. Determine how to help the person, tell them how you will do it, and follow through – before asking the individual to do things in return for you. 
  4. People working together ultimately succeed or fail based on their commitment to one another.
  5. Never give up easily on one of your people; it does a disservice to that individual and to you.

Leading Leaders

  1. The better you are at surrounding yourself with people of high potential, the greater your chance for success.
  2. Every relationship in your organization will affect you one way or another.  Those who do not increase you will inevitably decrease you. 

Motivating Others

  1. When you delegate a task to your people, make a point to help them capture your vision for what the completed task will look like.
  2. Hold your people accountable to a measurable standard of excellence, and make rewards and consequences a part of enforcing the standard. 
  3. Give your people full responsibility (ownership) for the completion of specific tasks and the prospect of sharing in the rewards that result.

People Skills

  1. Successful leadership is about 90% people knowledge and 10% product knowledge.
  2. You can have strong people skills and not be a good leader, but you cannot be a good leader without people skills. 
  3. The highest compliment a person can receive is one given by his or her leader; make a habit of being generous and sincere with your compliments.
  4. When your people are having trouble seeing the light at the end of the tunnel, remind them of the purpose of their work and help them envision what their work will accomplish. 
  5. Don't judge what your people want to tell you before they've told you. Listen to them.
  6. Part of your job as a leader is to help your people figure out what they're most passionate about, and then to help them pursue it. 

Personal Growth

  1. The more seriously you take your growth, the more seriously your people will take you.
  2. Leaders never outgrow the need to change.
  3. My leadership began to take flight when I allowed myself to press people to change—whether they thanked me or cursed me.
  4. Eventually, you must disengage from the relationships you’ve outgrown, or they will limit your growth as a leader.
  5. Leadership involves the heavy burden of responsibility, and the fear of getting it wrong can paralyze a leader.
  6. Confront your inadequacies and push your personal boundaries: It’s the surest way to grow, improve and expand the scope of your influence.

Procrastination

  1. It doesn't matter how hard or long you work if you're not accomplishing what needs to be done.
  2. Plan and execute your first failure so that you no longer have to fear it. 
  3. If the size of a task causes you to procrastinate or completely shy away, break it into smaller, more manageable tasks. 
  4. Often people fail to start or complete a task because they don't see any connection between what they're doing and what they really want to accomplish in life.

Recognizing Leadership Potential

  1. Your key people can be spotted when important decisions are being made, because they're the ones explaining what needs to be done.
  2. Determine how your potential leaders relate to the rest of your people; the people with the greatest potential won't have burned too many bridges.
  3. A potential leader who obeys God is in a much better position to succeed than one who ignores God's will for his life.
  4. Your potential leaders must have established a foundation of trust with others.
  5. A potential leader is the one who would be able to mentally sustain your organization's vision if you quit thinking for the next month. 
  6. Potential leaders come to you to offer help more often than you go to them to give guidance.
  7. True leadership requires serving others full time; potential leaders are ready and willing to do so.
  8. Potential leaders make themselves valuable because they see and seize opportunities to better the organization—regardless of the nature or size of the task.
  9. Though loyalty does not make a leader, disloyalty prevents a person from becoming one.

Success

  1. Reaching the top is a monumental achievement, but remaining there may be the most spectacular feat of all.
  2. The biggest detriment to tomorrow's success is today's success.
  3. Passion creates energy and magnetically pulls co-workers and customers into a shared vision, and it is exceptionally strong when linked with a leader's values.
  4. Leaders don't rise to the pinnacle of success without developing the right set of attitudes and habits; they make every day a masterpiece.
  5. The best leaders are humble enough to realize their victories depend upon their people.

Teamwork

  1. Teams make you better than you are, multiply your value, enable you to do what you do best, allow you to help others do their best, give you more time, provide you with companionship, help you fulfill the desires of your heart and compound your vision and effort.
  2. Transmit your vision emotionally by gaining credibility, demonstrating passion, establishing relationships and communicating a felt need. Transmit it logically by confronting reality, formulating strategy, accepting responsibility, celebrating victory and learning from defeat.
  3. Values hold the team together, provide stability for the team to grow upon, measure the team's performance, give direction and guidance and attract like-minded people.
  4. Coming together is a beginning, and staying together is progress, but only when teams sweat together do they find success.
  5. The Wrong Person in the Wrong Place = Regression. The Wrong Person in the Right Place = Frustration. The Right Person in the Wrong Place = Confusion. The Right Person in the Right Place = Progression. The Right People in the Right Places = Multiplication.
  6. An organization's structure does not cause growth, but it does control the rate and size of your growth.
  7. Talented performers flock to the best and brightest leaders, and these leaders in turn lift the lids off their people and uncork the latent talent inside of them.
  8. The best way to serve the individuals on the team is to see that the whole team wins.

Time Management

  1. Although it's admirable to be ambitious and hard-working, it's more desirable to be smart-working.
  2. Though it's tempting—especially if you're a people pleaser—you have to learn to discern what wheels really need grease, what ones can be greased by others and what ones will squeak no matter how much oil they have on them.
  3. The key to becoming a more efficient leader isn't checking off all the items on your to-do list each day.  It's in forming the habit of prioritizing your time so that you are accomplishing your most important goals in an efficient manner. 

Timing

  1. The timing of your decision is just as important as the decision you make.
  2. To establish appropriate timing for a decision, first discern the connection between the needs around you and the calling within you.
  3. When assessing the ramifications for decisions, leaders must take into account the repercussions of failure.
  4. Plain common sense can be the best deterrent to far-fetched opportunities.
  5. All too often, would-be decision-makers take too much time collecting, analyzing and reanalyzing information, hoping for that one last convincing detail that will dictate the correct choice.
  6. Consider if the passage of time shrinks available options or creates new ones.

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Good lesson


I was reading the Amar Chitra Katha title on Aushadha Kumar, a reincarnation of Bodhisatva. 
Thanks to his wisdom and his growing popularity in court, the other ministers became jealous of him and unsuccessfully plotted his downfall as often as they could. One of the ministers, Senaka, was usually the mastermind and incessantly tried inspite of his failed attempts to defame Aushadha Kumar. 

In one of his attempts, he asks Aushadha Kumar, "What must man acquire?" AK replies, "Truth" and then, Wealth, Mantra and finally the ability to keep a secret". How Senaka uses these responses to plot another wicked plan against Aushadha Kumar forms the climax of the story.

What struck me here was that, acquiring truth, which was mentioned as the first on the list of things AK says man must acquire. I am wondering if that was taught to us in school. Or while growing up. As we became adults, we learned first hand, that truth was usually the first thing to be sacrificed in several instances. 

One of my personal, most important quests is my search for truth. Of the past. The present. The future. Depending on the day, its either at the back of my mind or the only thing on my mind while I go about doing other things that I routinely do. 

We do everything possible to acquire wealth, some of us acquire mantra, depending on the family we are raised in and retention and practice of it depends on our own convictions we form as we grow up. The ability to keep a secret is truly rare as much as I know. I am not sure how many people I know one can trust with a secret.

There are some things I believe can completely change this world. And perhaps topping that list would be truth - in my opinion, of course. I could be absolutely wrong. Perhaps compassion and love would be better candidates in changing the world. 

Nevertheless I wish someday I ll know and realize the truth. Sigh. :)

And after typing out all this I have a feeling this post is so random. But then published it shall be.

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